The Anatomy of a Single Girl

When life threw me back into the singles club, the second question I asked myself was, “Under ideal conditions, what kind of man would I like to be with?” The first was “Am I ever really going to date again because it seems I’ve run out of love to give?” Anyways, I launched my mental … Continue reading The Anatomy of a Single Girl

My Struggles With Selective Mutism

There is this popular belief that people who speak less and listen more are usually wiser. I wish I could attribute my being quiet to being a blue-eyed, silver-haired sage. Unfortunately, it's not so. You see, what I am is a child who has a fear of speaking. Contrary to what I've made myself believe, … Continue reading My Struggles With Selective Mutism

Have I Been Dating Wrong?

I was riding with an older (non biological) sister one morning when she asked if I knew where we were. I looked around and answered in the negative. She went, "Ahn, ahn? Yemi! Didn't you go to Unilag." I laughed and told her I didn't go out much when I was in school. "So how … Continue reading Have I Been Dating Wrong?

My Tinderella Experience

I was fresh out of a major heartbreak, (well, more like six months out) and was in total denial of how much I was crashing on the inside. The only coping mechanism I could come up with was to look for some sort of distraction. Something to take my mind off the thoughts and also … Continue reading My Tinderella Experience

The Anniversary Bash

Yaaaaay! So, my church celebrated her 9th year anniversary on Thursday (10/10) and today we had our celebratory worker's bash. It was themed Denim Fever. I don't have any denim wear, neither do I have fever so I wore what I had. Shrugs. (I made my skirt by the way *wide grin*) Let me not … Continue reading The Anniversary Bash

5 Things I’d Love To Do But Probably Won’t

We won't always get all we want in life. If not, we for don bring thick, dark, chaos into this world. And that's why I'm sharing with you guys 5 things I'd love to try my hands on if I ever could. All I ask is that you stay with me till the very end. … Continue reading 5 Things I’d Love To Do But Probably Won’t

My ‘The Hangout’ Experience

*cracks knuckles* Let me first of all start by saying, all of you that said you were going to come but didn’t come, I am so very upset. You wanna know why… …because you missed small chops. Correct international small chops. O dun mi ganni. Anyways, back to the matter at hand. The Hangout was … Continue reading My ‘The Hangout’ Experience

My Soulmate Ghosted me. Twice.

In a bid to save me from being a single, old lady, sharing a house with 20 cats, a friend of mine - let's call him D - decided to hook me up (it cringes me to use this phrase) with his friend. I really wasn't interested in men or dating but then I felt … Continue reading My Soulmate Ghosted me. Twice.

7 Deadly Sins: Nigerian Version

Do you know who I am? (Pride) Come across two hot-headed people at logger heads and you most likely will hear these words fall out of someone’s mouth. Apparently it’s being said to intimidate the other person, to make them cower and back off. But it almost never works anyways. Except those words are from … Continue reading 7 Deadly Sins: Nigerian Version